I have the best readers. Here are some lovely things they have said* about particular articles or the blog in general:
“It is such a delight to read nearly all of my own thoughts, fears, sadnesses and woes echoed by others – it does somehow make it better.” – Katie
“I’ll definitely be revisiting this blog to cheer myself up every now and again when he’s away.” – Heidi
“I can relate to this so much, makes you feel you’re not alone…. Thanks for making me laugh on my dinner break. Here’s to all the stong women out there and all the girls starting out with their guys – good luck its hard road ahead, but one to share together” – Hayley
“I love your blog! It’s so nice to finally find other people who are in the same boat! So reassuring!” – Annabel
“I really can’t thank you enough for writing this. I would write more, however I can’t seem to see the screen properly through the tears of relief at not being on my own in these feelings! From one who outwardly seems perfectly together who has recently exploded – Thank you” – Tori
“My cousin told me to take a look at your blog and its amazing. Really well written and certainly makes you feel less alone. Thank you” – Erin
“It’s like you read my mind” – Ashley
“I am so glad I found this. My bf is in the Navy and was posted in December to Pakistan for his final 2 years. It’s truly agonising” – Kassi
“Thank you for writing this blog, you manage to put into words all the things we feel but do not know how to write down. I find myself getting teary eyed while reading because the nerves just below the surface are still raw even after 7 years, 2 operational tours (third coming up soon) and a child. It’s a lonely life, but someone has to keep the home fires burning, eh?” – Liz
“Absolutely blown away by your writing and so so true. I’m a fairly new military wife and I’ve written a few pieces about the ‘life’ but nothing as honest and gripping as this. Literally sat here nodding my head reading it! Congratulations on such an inspirational, poignant article and thank you for speaking out.” – Kate
“What a wonder read! My boyfriend is in the Royal Marines and although I am not his wife, I feel I can relate to some of what you have written. I admire its honesty and love” – Sair
“The first part of this just about had me in tears. Then the second part made me laugh so much my colleagues asked me what I was reading” – VP
“I love reading your blogs, they made me realise I’m not the only one going crazy!” – Eleanor
“I love this! I share your sentiments exactly! I got involved with my boyfriend and fell deeply in love when all of a sudden he had to go on a 6 month deployment shattering all our plans, hopes & dreams… thank you for your words, I don’t feel alone anymore” – Pixie
“Perfect. Exactly how I feel. Your blog has given me that little bit of hope and I shall continue to subscribe.” - Katie
“Thank you for this. It is an incredibly solitary existence, and it is true that if you aren’t part of this ‘club’, then it is very hard to understand. Thank you for expressing what I can’t say in your posts and allowing that small bitter part of me to realise that it’s not just mine and my partner’s relationship – all Military relationships are the same.” - Anita-Louise
“I have read other blogs and have never found them as interesting as yours. I always look forward to reading your new blog when it pops up on twitter. I hope you carry on your blogs and I know many people enjoy them and can relate to them soo much. Reading your blogs helps me as I have two very close friends in the army and are currently away in Germany” – Louise
“Hi, I have never felt compelled before to comment on someone’s blog although I often read them, but at last I have found someone who speaks the truth about being with someone in the military. I have only been married for 8 months and my husband has spent 3 of those away training and 5 of them in Afghanistan where is currently posted on a 12 month tour. This is not the ideal life of a newly wed and although I accept it and admire his contribution to British Defence, I refuse to become the stereotypical ‘wife on the patch’ or give up my life to the military despite the fact that to so many it seems expected. Thank you for writing with such honesty” – Jen
“Can i just say, you’ve put it so succinctly! as a R.A.F brat myself, (and a very proud army wife!) i went into this thinking exactly the same as you did! i can handle it no problem!! oh the differences in being a military child and a military wife!” – Jennet
“I’m going to encourage my partner to read this because no matter how many times I explain it, I think hearing someone else reiterate these feelings will help it sink in that little bit more so thank you” – Pazzy
“Just love your blog. my dad was a soldier and my son is currently RHA. Well done.” – Mags Fenner
“I just found this through a post 1 of my friends had put on facebook and really wish I had seen it a few months ago! It has certainly helped, and in particular nice to know there are a lot of other women out there like me… ….a massive well done on your blog, it is truly inspirational and keep up the good work” – Jane
“Oh so true. Your comments remind me of everytime my other half goes away. He’s read this too, and was very quiet and solemn afterwards. Perhaps should be compulsory reading material for all deployed spouses/partners!” – Katharine
“Another excellent blog – I know I’ve said this before, but I love your writing style – I can so easily visualise the whole event you describe – and it so reminds me of my times away – Thank you.” – Jules
“I just wanted to drop you a line, just to say really how you’ve inspired me. I too am the girlfriend of a soldier in the British Army. I’m reasonably new to this, and I was browsing online before I even started my blog for support networks for just ordinary people like you and I who are with soldiers. That’s how I found your blog! I have read each and every single post and I have to say, I’ve found it a real help – so thank you so much” – C
“Though I have followed you for some time on twitter this is the first time I have visited your blog. I was impressed by this article and the sentiments behind it and it has further enhanced my already high regard for you. Though I am a Quaker and hence a pacifist I have always admired the courage and sacrifice of service personnel. Through this post I now have insight into the courage and sacrifice of those whom those in the services leave behind” - Jane
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*All comments are abridged versions of those currently live on the site. Any emails sent remain confidential.
